If You Don’t Like it, Don’t Do It


sabrina-gebhardt-family-and-newborn-photography-mentor-and-teacher.jpg

Guys, I want to push back on a very, VERY common misconception. This might not be received well but I feel so strongly about it that I am going to say it anyway…

You don’t have to shoot everything to be considered a professional photographer.

Now let me say it again for the people in the back…

You do not have to shoot every genre to be considered a professional photographer.

I see this day in and day out with the new photographers that I mentor. They feel like in order to be taken seriously they have to offer all the thing. This is SO WRONG.

First of all, just because you CAN shoot it doesn’t mean that you should. Sure, you have the equipment and the skill to capture weddings but that doesn’t mean that you have to endure them if they make you miserable every second of a 10 hour wedding day.

Second, this way of thinking is seriously outdated. 30, 40, 50 years ago, this was a truth. If you were a professional photographer, you were expected to and you did shoot anything and everything that came your way.

Times have changed and this simply isn’t the case anymore.

So what happened? Why did this used to be fact and it isn’t anymore?

I am not a historian and I don’t know the “official” answer but I will give you my opinion: Cameras became accessible to everyone. 

Consumer grade cameras started becoming mass produced and all of a sudden, everyone was taking pictures. Over time that has meant that there are a MASSIVE amount of professional photographers in every city. Because there isn’t just one “professional” in the area, the expectations have changed. And for the better!

Now that there are a zillion photographers in my area, I don’t have to offer weddings or sports or high school seniors if I don’t want to. Why? Because there is someone else in my area that DOES love it and offers that service. 

The increase in photographers means you can gladly hand off all the inquiries that you get and are not interested in and just take on the ones that make your heart flutter. If you cringe at the thought of shooting one more maternity session then OH MY GOSH, DON’T! Find someone in your area to refer those inquiries to and stop saying yes. 

Now, how do you start getting inquiries for only the things that you DO want to shoot? 

I won’t go into this too deep because it is a pretty hefty topic but, at the root, the key is very simple…

Stop showing all that other stuff online.

Take down everything from your website and social media that you never want to photograph again and only show what makes you happy.

If you show it, they will come. So don’t show it. Or do. Either way, just be INTENTIONAL.

You are not one-size-fits-all. So stop trying to be and go after only the stuff that makes you giddy with excitement.

If you want to dig into this a little deeper, I would love to work with you. I offer both online and in-person mentoring and promise that the experience will be one of the best investments you ever make for your business. You can learn about those options here in the education shop.

SHARE THIS POst

  1. This advice has been so freeing to me. Thanks, Sabrina!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

The Blog

Social media is great for visibility, but email marketing for photographers is where real client relationships are built. Learn how to grow your list, what to send, and the simple strategies that turn subscribers into loyal, repeat clients.

Smiling woman in a white blouse with hands in pockets against a pink background, ready to share email marketing for photographers tips.

Get ready for your next session with these real-life family photo shoot tips! From prepping your kids and choosing outfits to mindset shifts that matter, this guide will help you walk into your photoshoot feeling confident, calm, and excited to capture the magic of your real life.

Candid nursery moment with kids playing and parents smiling, demonstrating how family photo shoot tips support comfort and ease at home.

Tired of clunky email platforms? This Flodesk review breaks down why I ditched the old, how Flodesk helps photographers market with ease, and how you can get started with gorgeous emails, automations, and freebies, without tech overwhelm or rising costs.

Confident businesswoman in a white shirt and floral skirt, smiling with arms crossed—highlighted in a Flodesk review.

Tired of spending hours editing every session? This Imagen AI review breaks down how I use it in my workflow, what it does well, and how it saves me 9–12 hours a week. If you’re curious about AI editing (or desperate for more breathing room), this one’s for you.

Photographer and business coach working at her laptop, sharing an honest Imagen AI review and how it saves hours of editing time.

When your portfolio is mediocre, your inquiries are too...In this step-by-step guide, learn about how boost your creativity, drastically improve your portfolio and sell out offers faster. 

Is your portfolio less than inspiring?